FMQ 354 DEFINING MOMENTS – Don’t Let Negative Events Define You


Don’t Let Negative Events Define You

Sometimes we need to remind ourselves that things, events just happen and that event is not you – it’s just happening.

Unless we say things like This always happens to me, Why is this ALWAYS happening to me, and by asking these ‘bonky’ questions these events and as many similar events your unconscious mind can string together and thereby define you.


You define the situation and state in the positive GOOD I get to experience this and grow, use the event to grow and learn.

Let me share some better questions that get you to re-frame and get you to succeed in whatever is happening in your life.

All this in a 5-Minute Quickie podcast episode making life better. Instead of Sh*t happens let SHIFT happen.

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