Month: July 2023

#349 Using Regret To Succeed

When you look back and realize “Oh I wish I’d” or “If only I’d” or you fill in the blank and feel that regret. For me I then would feel angry, frustrated, and a few more expletives  :O)

And despite all of that I, we still want to do that stuff so how do we get rid of the regret, guilt and those limiting beliefs? That’s the whole point of this episode (and every episode) to give the how to processes and this episode is no exception.

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FMQ 404 I Have To Be Perfect Because I’m Not Good Enough

“If I’m perfect I will not be judged” or “If I’m perfect in what I do I will not be a failure” – “I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH”

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#348 Excellence -Totally Doable

What would like to do better, to excel at? and what would that be like if you did? WEll that’s exactly where we are going my friend.

I think and hope you like it

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FMQ 403 A Muse on Hypnosis

I’m often asked why I learned hypnosis and the real truth. I did it for every other reason than helping others – it was all about me and a way into NLP.

That all changed within about 2 hours of the first day of my first training,

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#347 THE GIFT We All Have But Do We Use It?

So what is this gift? this skill? If I told you no one can take it away from you or make you use it in a particular way would that make it easier to guess?

Well it’s probably better described as two things

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FMQ 402 The Key To Getting Things Done – Good bye Procrastination and Overwhelm

What we do need to do is hide that bloody to-do list. And yes we all have them in one form or another even if it’s only in your head – and that’s the worst place to keep it.

Hide it after we have used it in a special way and make today a success

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#346 The Pain Of Not Doing The Things We Want To Do

We all have things we keep putting off, things that if we did them could and would bring more pleasure, a massive amount of pleasure if you were able to do them but for some reason, I say excuse, we don’t.

And I am going to explain why that is

And …….

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FMQ 401 I Am A Loser

just a little while ago I had the inspiration to create a fantastic podcast. I created a wonderful mindmap of notes and stories and when I went to record ………. It’s disappeared.

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#345 Values – Are They Important?

alues, core values, and those pesky identity beliefs run our world and guess what they are all stored in your unconscious mind.

But what happens when your values in one context clash with those of a different context?

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