NLP

#449 How to Achieve Your Outcome – Your Dream

In this transformative episode, Paul CLoughie delivers on his promise from episode #445, revealing the exact methodology for turning your biggest dreams into reality. This isn’t another generic goal-setting session—it’s a deep dive into the psychological architecture of achievement, complete with a powerful guided hypnosis session to embed these principles into your subconscious mind.

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#448 Changing Negative Behaviours Easily

This isn’t just about stopping bad habits. It’s about understanding the intention behind those knee-jerk behaviours and learning how to respond with calm, curiosity, and confidence.

What you’ll learn in this episode:
How to recognise the unconscious triggers behind emotional outbursts
Why your unconscious mind isn’t the enemy—it’s actually trying to protect you (even if it’s doing a rubbish job)
A simple yet powerful way to thank those old patterns—and let them go
How to build new beliefs and emotional habits that support the real you
Practical steps to respond with intention instead of reaction
And a process to boot to follow along with

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#444 The State of I’ve Got This and How To Get It

Want to unlock that confident feeling whenever life throws a challenge your way? In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the powerful mindset of “I’ve Got This” – that extraordinary state where confidence and competence come together to help you tackle anything.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:
How to tap into unshakeable self-confidence using proven NLP anchoring techniques
The neuroscience behind creating emotional states you can access on demand
My personal journey with anchoring and how it’s transformed my approach to challenging situations
A practical, step-by-step process to create your own confidence anchor using just your thumb and little finger
Why specific, vivid memories are the secret to building powerful anchors that last

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#440 Imagine Anxiety Spinning Away

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:
The body-mind connection of anxiety and why identifying WHERE you feel it makes all the difference
A powerful guided visualization that transforms anxiety into something completely different (and yes, it WORKS!)
How specific colors can become your secret weapons against anxious thoughts
My step-by-step approach to rewriting the stories that keep anxiety alive

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#404 How To Remove The Nay Sayers

You’ll learn:

How to decide for yourself and not let others dictate your success.
The importance of surrounding yourself with supportive individuals.
Techniques to anchor positive feelings and use them to propel you forward.

By the end of this episode, you’ll be equipped with the mindset and tools to ignore the naysayers and achieve your goals. Ready to take control of your destiny

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#395 How To deal With Being Attacked Part 2

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to identify the visual or auditory triggers that set you off.
The steps to use the Swish Pattern to replace negative reactions with positive ones.
How to practice this technique to make it a natural response in your daily life.

Follow along and practice with me, and soon you’ll find yourself reacting in a way that is healthier and more beneficial for you and those around you.

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#394 How To Deal With Being Attacked – Part 1

n this episode, we dive into the mechanisms our unconscious mind uses to protect us from feeling hurt or guilty. Often, these protective reactions are triggered and lead to unnecessary conflict. I’ll introduce two powerful processes to help you change these triggered reactions and respond more appropriately.

In this first part I dive into the what and the why and all things south and end up with one process that really can have a huge impact on resolving this issue. The process is all about training your unconscious mind to hear and see what’s really happening and responding in the the most appropriate way and not just straight int Fight mode.

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#393 Victory Speech and A View From The Balcony

This episode is about how to achieve success.

Sometimes I hear something and go YES! Someone’s using the thing I was also taught because it works.

And this episode is developed from listening to master negotiator William Ure and how what he said could be used to create change at the belief, emotional and behavior levels.

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# 388 Taking My Last Breath So We Can Live A Good Life

What would happen if we were to imagine taking our last breath and looking back on what we want to have achieved in that lifetime? And because it’s in our imagination you can do this by imagining everything you want to have done, and experienced – the sight, sounds and feelings of all your dreams having been truly realized.

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#377 Dealing With Anger PART 2

If you haven’t listened to part 1 it would help you get the best out of this part 2 and guide you to make changes – Anger doesn’t only affect those with it but all those close to them and so will letting go of anger. Do it for yourself and others to get the benefit. win-win-win-win

So come dive in with me and find ways to release anger

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