personal development

FMQ 522 Who Do You Want To Be?

As the year begins to wind down, this Five Minute Quickie (that may run a little longer 😄) invites you to pause, reflect, and ask yourself some powerful questions.

This isn’t about New Year’s resolutions – it’s about intention.

In this episode, Paul challenges you to look at:

Why you’re really listening

What you truly want

Who you want to become

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Why Am I Feeling Alone? (And How to Come Back to Yourself)

A deeper exploration inspired by Episode #470 of the Personal Development Unplugged Podcast

We all feel alone at times. That sense of isolation can feel heavy, confusing, and sometimes even frightening. But here’s the surprising truth:

Loneliness is rarely the real problem — it’s often a symptom of an unconscious attempt to protect you.

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#470 Why Am I Feeling Alone And Feeling……..?

In this powerful longer episode, I dive into the hidden causes of loneliness — why we feel alone, why it often starts as protection, and how we unintentionally reinforce it with the wrong questions.

Then I’ll guide you through a gentle, refined hypnosis process to help you reconnect with yourself, shift your emotions, and find comfort, peace, and connection again.

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FMQ 519 Talking’s Over It’s Time To Change

In this slightly-longer FMQ, we’re taking a gentle but powerful step toward real change. No more talking about the issue. No more cycling through the same thoughts. This episode is all about shifting your focus to what actually creates transformation — how you want to feel.

So many of us get stuck talking, thinking, analysing… and nothing changes. Why?
Because talking doesn’t always touch the unconscious mind — the place where these patterns were created in the first place.

In this FMQ, I share:

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FMQ 515 How To Consistently Do Your Best

Just a few seconds between tasks can reset your focus, break negative carry-over from the last thing you did, and set the intention for doing your best on the next.

You’ll learn:

Why your “best” should be your baseline, not an exception

How a 2-second pause can change the quality of your whole day

The role of feelings and intention in achieving your personal best

A quick reflection practice to avoid carrying stress from one task into another

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FMQ 514 – Understanding Focus: The RAS

In this Five Minute Quickie, I’m breaking down the RAS in plain English. It’s the part of your brain that decides what to notice – and it’s powered by emotion. The good news? You can train it to look for opportunities, positivity, and success. The bad news? If you’re stuck in negative emotions, it will keep showing you reasons to stay stuck.

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#462 How To Achieve and Have The Mindset of Success

We hear it everywhere: “You need the mindset of success.” But what does that actually mean? And more importantly — how do you get it?

In this episode of the Personal Development Unplugged podcast, I’ll take you beyond the vague definitions and straight into a practical process you can use right now. We’ll cut through the fluff and create a real mindset of success — one where your mind and body are fully aligned toward a specific goal.

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#451 The Blue Print To Confidence and Self Assurity

Let’s get one thing straight right off the bat – there’s no such thing as a confidence blueprint. If someone’s selling you that, it’s clickbait, pure and simple. But here’s what I can give you: a real, honest look at self-assurity and how to build it from the ground up.

You see, I’ve been where you are. I remember being at the peak of my confidence in my career – I couldn’t do anything wrong, just knew I had it all figured out. Until I didn’t. Something unexpected happened, boom, that confidence bloody went. Completely went. So where did it go? Well, stick around because I’ll tell you about that.

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#448 Changing Negative Behaviours Easily

This isn’t just about stopping bad habits. It’s about understanding the intention behind those knee-jerk behaviours and learning how to respond with calm, curiosity, and confidence.

What you’ll learn in this episode:
How to recognise the unconscious triggers behind emotional outbursts
Why your unconscious mind isn’t the enemy—it’s actually trying to protect you (even if it’s doing a rubbish job)
A simple yet powerful way to thank those old patterns—and let them go
How to build new beliefs and emotional habits that support the real you
Practical steps to respond with intention instead of reaction
And a process to boot to follow along with

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FMQ 498 Can I Really Get Better Every Day?

CANI Constant and Neverending Improvement – Is that really a thing?

Can you continue to improve by 1% a day?

Is all that possible or just Personal Development hype?

Well, let’s see. Come with me for about 5 minutes and let’s muse and see what we think.

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