PersonalDevelopment

# 455 Feeling A Failure- Lets Solve It

August 1, 2025

Ever felt like a failure?
That heavy, gut-sinking emotion that says “I’m not good enough” or *“I’ve let myself (or others) down”? You’re not alone. But what if I told you feeling like a failure is not a fact – it’s a signal. And better still, it’s something we can solve together.

In this episode of the Personal Development Unplugged podcast, we go deep – but in only the way we can. I’ll walk you through how those thoughts of failure sneak in, what they really mean, and most importantly, give you simple, practical NLP and hypnosis-based tools to shift that feeling fast.

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FMQ 504 I’m Stupid I don’t understand – They’re stupid they don’t understand me

July 15, 2025

In this episode, we dive into:

Why it’s your responsibility to be understood
How feeling misunderstood (or stupid) is a communication challenge, not a personal flaw
Simple ways to change the way you speak so your message lands
A mindset shift to stop blaming others (or yourself) when communication fails
The power of reflection and “musing over a G&T” to grow your emotional intelligence

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FMQ 503 How to Know If you Or Someone Else Has Changed

July 8, 2025

n this five-minute muse, we dive into one of the simplest ways to know if you’ve truly changed… and most of us miss it.

You’ll explore the power of behaviour as the only real measure of change — and why we often forget the progress we’ve made. It’s time to reflect, reset, and maybe even celebrate the changes you didn’t know you’d already made.

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#451 The Blue Print To Confidence and Self Assurity

July 4, 2025

Let’s get one thing straight right off the bat – there’s no such thing as a confidence blueprint. If someone’s selling you that, it’s clickbait, pure and simple. But here’s what I can give you: a real, honest look at self-assurity and how to build it from the ground up.

You see, I’ve been where you are. I remember being at the peak of my confidence in my career – I couldn’t do anything wrong, just knew I had it all figured out. Until I didn’t. Something unexpected happened, boom, that confidence bloody went. Completely went. So where did it go? Well, stick around because I’ll tell you about that.

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#450 Loneliness and My Plan To Conquer it.

June 27, 2025

eeling isolated? Struggling with loneliness? You’re not alone. In this powerful episode, Paul Clough reveals his breakthrough plan to conquer loneliness once and for all – and it’s not what you think.

Why This Episode Matters:

Loneliness has become an epidemic affecting millions worldwide. Whether you’re personally struggling with isolation, know someone who is, or simply want to future-proof yourself against loneliness, this episode is essential listening. Paul’s unique approach offers real hope and practical solutions that work – because everyone deserves meaningful connection.

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#449 How to Achieve Your Outcome – Your Dream

June 20, 2025

In this transformative episode, Paul CLoughie delivers on his promise from episode #445, revealing the exact methodology for turning your biggest dreams into reality. This isn’t another generic goal-setting session—it’s a deep dive into the psychological architecture of achievement, complete with a powerful guided hypnosis session to embed these principles into your subconscious mind.

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#446 Did I Do Enough – Really?

May 30, 2025

Ever catch yourself at the end of the day wondering, “Did I do enough?” Here’s the thing – having the courage to answer that question honestly is where real growth begins.

In this episode, I’m getting vulnerable about my own journey with this question. Some days I’m flying high, crushing goals and feeling unstoppable. Other days? Well, let’s just say they feel like I’m moving through quicksand. Sound familiar?

The beautiful truth is this: you are more than what you think you are, even on those challenging days.

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#440 Imagine Anxiety Spinning Away

April 18, 2025

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:
The body-mind connection of anxiety and why identifying WHERE you feel it makes all the difference
A powerful guided visualization that transforms anxiety into something completely different (and yes, it WORKS!)
How specific colors can become your secret weapons against anxious thoughts
My step-by-step approach to rewriting the stories that keep anxiety alive

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#436 Understanding What Others Are Thinking and Feeling

March 21, 2025

Ever wished you could really get where someone else is coming from? Whether it’s family, colleagues, or even people you just can’t seem to agree with—understanding others can be a game-changer.

In this episode, we’re diving into perceptual positioning, a simple yet powerful way to see the world from different perspectives. It’s like stepping into someone else’s shoes—but with a practical twist that actually works.

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#429 When Anxiety Whispers

January 31, 2025

Here’s What You’ll Learn Today:
The Hidden Message of Anxiety
Anxiety isn’t just noise—it’s your unconscious mind trying to send you a message. Let’s uncover the positive intentions behind it.
Breaking the Cycle
Stop running from anxiety. With simple techniques like pausing, breathing, and acknowledging it, we’ll learn how to face it head-on.
Curiosity as a Superpower
By staying curious, we can decode what our anxiety is trying to tell us, turning fear into actionable insights.
Empowerment Through Awareness
When we listen to these whispers, we can learn from past experiences, break unhelpful patterns, and align with what truly matters.

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