positive intention

#448 Changing Negative Behaviours Easily

June 13, 2025

This isn’t just about stopping bad habits. It’s about understanding the intention behind those knee-jerk behaviours and learning how to respond with calm, curiosity, and confidence.

What you’ll learn in this episode:
How to recognise the unconscious triggers behind emotional outbursts
Why your unconscious mind isn’t the enemy—it’s actually trying to protect you (even if it’s doing a rubbish job)
A simple yet powerful way to thank those old patterns—and let them go
How to build new beliefs and emotional habits that support the real you
Practical steps to respond with intention instead of reaction
And a process to boot to follow along with

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#401 Changing I’m Not Good Enough to Yes I Am

July 27, 2024

In this enlightening episode, we explore why these negative feelings can actually be a protective mechanism and how you can transform them into feelings of safety, comfort, and self-worth.

In this episode, I’ll discuss:

The positive intention behind limiting beliefs.
How these beliefs develop and generalize over time.

You’ll learn:

Why your unconscious mind creates these beliefs to protect you.
How to reframe these beliefs to feel good enough and worthy.

Through a guided process, you’ll discover:

How to identify the emotions, behaviors, and beliefs you need to feel safe and confident.
A simple yet effective visualization exercise to reprogram your unconscious mind.

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#138 A personal story – Where do our beliefs come from

July 10, 2019

Come with me and hear this story of experiencing of not so nice feeling and how I communicated with it and my unconscious mind and how they communicated with me.

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#137 Love and appreciation

June 29, 2019

Come with me to find how even secondary gain, getting things from an issue or problem, eventually will not get you the rewards you want.

And

How we need to do the very things we want from others.

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