showing up

Stop Letting Yourself Down: The Power of Living by Your Values – Blog #1

September 5, 2025

Most of us are brilliant at showing up for others.
We bend over backwards for our friends, rearrange our lives for our families, and sacrifice our time just to prove that we can be counted on. And that’s a beautiful thing — being dependable is a value worth celebrating.

But here’s the uncomfortable truth: if you’re always accountable to everyone else and rarely accountable to yourself, you’re letting yourself down. And when you let yourself down, eventually, you let others down too.

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#297 When Did You Decide Not To Show Up?

July 30, 2022

When we have the courage to show up, show up as our real self the world changes – for the better! It’s like going through that imagined barrier of our comfort zone only to find ‘More Better’ on the other side and to realize it was us who put that barrier in the first place.

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