i’m not good enough

FMQ 490 You Don’t Know How Good You Are

I believe we totally underestimate our skills and what we could achieve if we knew just how good we are. Sometimes, we hide behind that old limiting belief of “I’m Not Good Enough”.

If only we knew, but how do you find out what you excel in?

Well, in this 5-minute quickie, I will share one way,

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#421 Afraid To Fail – Lets Change That

Hey, you. Yes, you. Have you ever felt stuck, frozen in the headlights of your own expectations? Like you’ve got to get it just right or not bother at all? That nagging fear of failure with that belief of “I’m not good enough”—it creeps in, doesn’t it? It stops us before we even start. But guess what? Today, we’re pulling the plug on all that.

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FMQ 472 Why You’re Afraid to Fail

How is it that fearing failure is actually doing something good for you. In effect protect you from failure.

The issue is that it also generates those negative and limiting beliefs such as ‘I’m not good enough’ ‘I’m not worthy’ and so on.

The thing is there is a direct conflict in this form of protection is to actual feel a failure and really believe I’m not good enough because I didn’t do the stuff I want to do because of that ,now, inappropriate fear.

Come with me now for 5 or so minutes and hopefully we’ll dive deeper in a longer episode

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#365 I’m Really Not Good Enough

Do you have that old limiting belief of “I’m not good enough”, most of us do somewhere in our lives? And when we begin to understand the positive intention behind that belief and the conflict it’s causing now things tend to change – for the better and that’s where we are going today.

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#364 I Don’t Deserve This

I’m so used to “I’m Not Good Enough” and so many feel that way but this was and is a subtle difference don’t you think?

So I wanted to discover the positive intention behind this limiting belief and I think I got it, well one of them. You’ll have to let me know if you think there are others.

And……..

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FMQ 404 I Have To Be Perfect Because I’m Not Good Enough

“If I’m perfect I will not be judged” or “If I’m perfect in what I do I will not be a failure” – “I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH”

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#260 Taking the Anxiety and Fear from Planning Your Future

I just couldn’t let this go

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FMQ 315 If Only I Get Accepted

“He who waits just waits and waits and …………”

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#208 I’m Not Good Enough PART 2

It’s time to let that belief go

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#207 I’m Not Good Enough – PART 1

This Limiting belief “I’m not good enough” affects everyone

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