What if personal development wasn’t about fixing what’s wrong… but about deliberately heading for joy?
In this Five Minute Quickie, I share where we’re heading next on the Personal Development Unplugged journey — and it’s all about creating a life that feels worth living. A life with joy, intention, and chapters you’re proud of.
Read MoreIf You Thought This Was Bad… You’re Wrong (And That’s Good News) There are moments in life when things feel heavy. When emotions get pushed down, when thoughts spiral, and when that quiet voice starts whispering, “What’s the point?” I’ve been there. And in this episode, I want to tell you something important — feeling…
Read MoreYou don’t need to be “fixed”.
You don’t need to be perfect.
You just need the right tools — and a bit of encouragement.
And I’ve got your back.
What You’ll Experience
A safe, grounded hypnosis process (eyes closed, no distractions)
Powerful imagery to reconnect you with confidence, ease, and self-belief
A reminder that growth doesn’t have to be hard — it can be fun
Practical encouragement to start using the tools you already have
Read MoreMost people know what they want.
More confidence.
Less anxiety.
A richer, fuller life.
More meaning. More peace. More joy.
And yet… it doesn’t always happen.
Read MoreIn this longer, deeper episode of Personal Development Unplugged, I take you beyond goal-setting, beyond wishy-washy intentions, and right into the one missing ingredient that makes real, lasting change inevitable.
This episode includes a guided hypnosis / deep visualisation process designed to help you connect emotionally and unconsciously with the version of you who is already living their best life — and to install the inner resource that makes it all possible.
Read MorePersonal Development Unplugged
This is a short Christmas and New Year message from me to you.
A moment to pause.
A moment to reflect on how far you’ve come.
And a gentle invitation to think about who you want to become — without pressure, without rigid resolutions.
A deeper exploration inspired by Episode #469 of Personal Development Unplugged
There’s a belief that sits quietly behind so many struggles:
I’m not good enough.
It’s one of those thoughts that feels like it’s always been there. It shapes the way we show up, the way we hold back, and the way we talk to ourselves when things get tough.
But here’s the truth: you weren’t born with that belief.
It came from somewhere. And if it was learned, it can be changed.
In this deep-dive episode of Personal Development Unplugged, we go straight to the heart of that old familiar belief: “I’m not good enough.”
Where did it come from? Why does it stick? And more importantly… how the hell do we finally let it go?
Following on from FMQ 520, we go far deeper — unpacking the real intention behind that belief (yep, your unconscious mind is actually trying to protect you), the conflict it accidentally creates, and how to guide it toward a better way of keeping you safe.
And then… we do the thing.
A guided process — powerful, imaginative, and deeply integrative — designed to dissolve the old belief, honour the intention behind it, and install new, empowering beliefs that actually support you.
The Big Lie: “I’m Not Good Enough”
This belief doesn’t arrive fully formed. It grows out of something smaller, something more specific — an old emotion, an early moment, a comment that hit too hard, or an experience that your unconscious mind misunderstood.
It might have started with:
A family member who said something careless.
A teacher who used shame instead of encouragement.
A group of kids who learned how to wound with words.
A moment where you felt embarrassed, scared, unseen or overwhelmed — and your unconscious mind tried to “protect” you by assuming something negative about you.
Read MoreI’m Not Good Enough Where’d That Come From? In this slightly longer Five-Minute Quickie, we’re digging into one of the sneakiest, most stubborn beliefs so many of us carry around:“I’m not good enough.” Where did it come from?Why does it stick?And how do we uncover what’s really underneath it? This FMQ is all about preparing…
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