limiting beliefs

#484 Resistance- The Fear That Is Stopping Your Success

Why do we procrastinate, self-sabotage and overthink? Discover how fear-based resistance keeps you stuck and learn practical ways to move forward with confidence and clarity.

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FMQ 535 What’s Stopping You Reaching Success?

What’s really stopping you from reaching success? In this FMQ, Paul explores procrastination, self-sabotage, limiting beliefs and the unconscious resistance that may be holding you back.

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FMQ529 – The Big Why: Let’s Refresh

A short Personal Development Unplugged FMQ episode exploring why refreshing your “why” is essential for motivation, confidence, and meaningful personal growth.

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FMQ 525 They Don’t Know I’m Suffering

They Don’t Know I’m Suffering

We talk a lot about vulnerability these days — maybe too much, and often in the wrong way.

In this Five Minute Quickie, I challenge the idea that vulnerability means oversharing or spilling everything too soon. Because for most people who are suffering — anxiety, overwhelm, feeling broken, or just “not quite right” — the real issue is this:

People don’t know what’s going on inside.

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“I’m Not Good Enough” — Where It Comes From and How to Let It Go

A deeper exploration inspired by Episode #469 of Personal Development Unplugged

There’s a belief that sits quietly behind so many struggles:
I’m not good enough.
It’s one of those thoughts that feels like it’s always been there. It shapes the way we show up, the way we hold back, and the way we talk to ourselves when things get tough.

But here’s the truth: you weren’t born with that belief.
It came from somewhere. And if it was learned, it can be changed.

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#469 “I’m Not Good Enough – Where’d That Go?”

In this deep-dive episode of Personal Development Unplugged, we go straight to the heart of that old familiar belief: “I’m not good enough.”
Where did it come from? Why does it stick? And more importantly… how the hell do we finally let it go?

Following on from FMQ 520, we go far deeper — unpacking the real intention behind that belief (yep, your unconscious mind is actually trying to protect you), the conflict it accidentally creates, and how to guide it toward a better way of keeping you safe.

And then… we do the thing.
A guided process — powerful, imaginative, and deeply integrative — designed to dissolve the old belief, honour the intention behind it, and install new, empowering beliefs that actually support you.

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#452 The Key To Unlocking Your Potential

What if everything you want is already within you—just waiting for permission to emerge?

In this unplugged deep dive, I share the true, no-fluff key to unlocking your potential… and it’s not just motivational fluff or clickbait—it’s practical, doable, and wildly empowering.

You’ll explore:

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FMQ 490 You Don’t Know How Good You Are

I believe we totally underestimate our skills and what we could achieve if we knew just how good we are. Sometimes, we hide behind that old limiting belief of “I’m Not Good Enough”.

If only we knew, but how do you find out what you excel in?

Well, in this 5-minute quickie, I will share one way,

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#415 My Real Life Metaphor To See The World Clearly

Here’s the thing: personal growth isn’t selfish. It’s not about being self-centered; it’s about being self-aware. It’s about becoming the best version of you—not just for you, but for the people around you. Imagine this: when you see the world more clearly, you’re able to show up as your true self—the real you—and that’s a gift to everyone.

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#412 Never Let Can’t Stop You

Ever found yourself saying, “I can’t do that”? This episode dives into the power of reframing that statement to “I won’t,” and how this simple shift can empower you to take control and achieve your goals. Discover how to break free from limiting beliefs and self-doubt, and learn to embrace new challenges with confidence.

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