FMQ529 – The Big Why: Let’s Refresh
A short Personal Development Unplugged FMQ episode exploring why refreshing your “why” is essential for motivation, confidence, and meaningful personal growth.
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Empathy Without the Pain – A Better Way to Help Others (and Yourself)
Empathy sucks.
Now before you throw something at me, I’m not talking about kindness. I’m not talking about caring. I’m talking about absorbing other people’s pain as if it’s your responsibility to carry it.
Because that? That drains you.
And it doesn’t actually help them.
The Hidden Cost of Empathy
Read More#476 Empathy – A Way That Works Without The Pain
Discover why empathy can drain you and how compassion and self-empathy help you support others without absorbing their pain.
Read MoreMy Christmas and New Year Message
Personal Development Unplugged
This is a short Christmas and New Year message from me to you.
A moment to pause.
A moment to reflect on how far you’ve come.
And a gentle invitation to think about who you want to become — without pressure, without rigid resolutions.
FMQ 522 Who Do You Want To Be?
As the year begins to wind down, this Five Minute Quickie (that may run a little longer 😄) invites you to pause, reflect, and ask yourself some powerful questions.
This isn’t about New Year’s resolutions – it’s about intention.
In this episode, Paul challenges you to look at:
Why you’re really listening
What you truly want
Who you want to become
Read MoreFMQ 519 Talking’s Over It’s Time To Change
In this slightly-longer FMQ, we’re taking a gentle but powerful step toward real change. No more talking about the issue. No more cycling through the same thoughts. This episode is all about shifting your focus to what actually creates transformation — how you want to feel.
So many of us get stuck talking, thinking, analysing… and nothing changes. Why?
Because talking doesn’t always touch the unconscious mind — the place where these patterns were created in the first place.
In this FMQ, I share:
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