#321 Changing Your Negative Behaviors – It’s Up To You

Changing Your Negative Behaviors – It’s Up To You

It Really Is and I’ll Show You How

Let me tell you a story about a previous client of mine, it’ll help me explain where I’m going with this.

The thing is whilst we can dislike and even hate our behaviors when you look deeper or below the surface we will find there is a positive intention behind them. I really believe in the presupposition of NLP that every, yes every, behavior has a positive intention. But when you experience the behavior as a negative it’s hard to accept. Yet it’s been borne out with every client I have worked with.

I’ll even explain through two other clients’ experiences that they thought were phobias and shows how sometimes the unconscious mind, with the best of intentions, can make a mistake which also proves this point.

When you understand this and begin to see the ‘why’ you can get your unconscious mind to change that behavior to something that you like and really supports you. And it does this because it gets to keep that positive intention recognizing the old behavior no longer is appropriate.

Come with me in this audio delight to learn how you can change the behaviors you feel no longer serve you and make wonderful changes in your life, which in essence is why you and I are here.

There will be a second part of this to learn how to create the behaviors we want but before that, we need to understand the above and then your unconscious mind and your conscious mind will begin to work together, aligned to make your world the best it can be and you along with it.

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