In this deeper dive episode, Paul explores a personal experience of feeling lost after making significant changes in life and identity. What emerged was a surprising realisation: perhaps we don’t lose our way at all. Perhaps we simply lose connection with the part of ourselves that already knows the way.
Read MoreDo you really need more freedom, or more structure? Discover why the real answer may be finding the balance between support and control in this FMQ from Personal Development Unplugged.
Read MoreWhat’s really stopping you from reaching success? In this FMQ, Paul explores procrastination, self-sabotage, limiting beliefs and the unconscious resistance that may be holding you back.
Read MoreFeeling lost in life? Discover why you’re not truly lost, just disconnected from your inner direction. Learn how to reconnect with your future self, trust your intuition, and take the next meaningful step forward.
Read MoreA short Personal Development Unplugged FMQ episode exploring why refreshing your “why” is essential for motivation, confidence, and meaningful personal growth.
Read MoreEmpathy sucks.
Now before you throw something at me, I’m not talking about kindness. I’m not talking about caring. I’m talking about absorbing other people’s pain as if it’s your responsibility to carry it.
Because that? That drains you.
And it doesn’t actually help them.
The Hidden Cost of Empathy
Read MoreDiscover why empathy can drain you and how compassion and self-empathy help you support others without absorbing their pain.
Read MoreIn this slightly-longer FMQ, we’re taking a gentle but powerful step toward real change. No more talking about the issue. No more cycling through the same thoughts. This episode is all about shifting your focus to what actually creates transformation — how you want to feel.
So many of us get stuck talking, thinking, analysing… and nothing changes. Why?
Because talking doesn’t always touch the unconscious mind — the place where these patterns were created in the first place.
In this FMQ, I share:
Read MoreWe’ve all been there. Fired up by a dream, full of determination, and then somewhere along the way… we stall.
Maybe the excitement fades. Maybe doubt creeps in. Or maybe we just lose sight of why we started in the first place.
There’s an easier way to achieve your dreams and goals — one that actually feels good and keeps you motivated the whole way through.
In this episode, I share a simple but powerful approach to goal setting that most people miss: starting from the last step — that moment when you’ve already achieved your goal — and using that feeling to drive you forward. You’ll discover how to find your true why, anchor your motivation, and create a plan that’s realistic, energising, and deeply aligned with what you want.
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